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Introduction

A Healthy Child Needs a Healthy Brain, A Healthy Brain Needs Healthy Sleep

Blog Posts 15, based on the United States of America Department of the Army Field Manual: Holistic Healing and Fitness, describe what really matters for your child’s sleep. If sleep is an important enough topic for national defense than surely sleep should be considered a serious topic for parenting!

Blog 183Naps: A Review (1 of 4)

Introduction: There are five main elements of healthy sleep for children:

  1. Sleep duration: night and day (Blog Post 6).
  2. Sleep consolidation (Blog Post 11).
  3. Sleep schedule, timing of sleep, bedtime (Blog Post 8) (Parents’ Reports 2).
  4. Sleep regularity (Blog Post 12).
  5. Naps (Blog Posts 5356) (Parents Reports 5)

1. Nap Duration

    A. Long naps are good: Children have more positive mood and persistence. Children are better able to accept and adjust to new routines; your child is more adaptable (Blog Posts 4648 and 182).

    B. Long naps incorrectly appear to be bad: Short or fragmented night sleep causes long naps. These children may have neurobehavioral problems. The neurobehavioral problems are incorrectly associated with long naps instead of impaired night sleep. Long naps do not fully compensate for short night sleep duration. Impaired night sleep harms the child (Blog Posts 113 and 182).

2. Nap Frequency

    Habitual nappers versus non-habitual nappers: Among children 3–6 years old, three groups of children were examined based on nap habituality (Blog Post 55):

    1. Frequent nappers (napped more than 70 percent of available days).
    2. Sometime nappers (napped 15 to 70 percent of available days).
    3. Rarely nappers (napped less than 15 percent of available days).

    Objective measures of sleep showed that on an experimental nap promotion day (children were encouraged to nap between 1:00 and 3:00 P.M. by teachers’ verbal encouragement: “Today is nap day, try to sleep”), total nap sleep time increased for all three groups. Napping more did not reduce night sleep.

3. Culture Effects Napping

    A. Comparing Cultures:

    Comparing children from predominately Caucasian, Asian, and Middle East countries, Professor Jodi Mindell showed a trend towards later bedtimes, more frequent and longer night wakings, less nighttime and less daytime sleep durations, and more sleep problems in Middle East countries. Asian countries had late bedtimes perhaps attributed to placing a high value on academic accomplishment with studying late at night. Separate reports describe Spain, Italy, and South America as having late bedtimes and shorter sleep durations perhaps attributed to placing a high value on having children participate in the family evening life, including a late dinner. In some cultures, Grandparents or nannies are highly involved in child-care including naps and sleeping with the baby at night in a separate room is common. Affordability of nannies and government paid maternity leave varies greatly among different countries (Blog Post 14).

    B. Dutch study (Blog Post 101):

    For two matched groups of 8-month-old infants, one in the Netherlands and one in the U.S.A.: “The Dutch infants averaged 13.7 hours of total sleep per 24 hours, 1.7 hours more than the U.S. infants; this difference was mostly due to daytime sleep.” • Dutch parents were influenced by strong culturally shared beliefs that emphasized “the three R’s”: ‘rust’ (rest); ‘regelmaat’ (regularity), and ‘reinheid’ (cleanliness). Sleep is a major part of the notion of ‘rust’ (rest). The theme is Restful Regularity. • American parents were influenced by strong culturally shared beliefs that emphasized ‘stimulation’ because they believe that stimulation boosts baby’s brain power and advances cognitive development. The theme is Developmental Stimulation.

    C. China study (Blog Post 182):

    In China, post-lunch napping is a common practice for school age children. About 1,000 children in 6th grade who were about 12.5 years-old, took naps per week as follows:

    Never 0-2 3-4 5-7
    12% 19% 29% 40%


    “In China, napping is a common practice and is promoted as a way to facilitate children’s broadening scope of awareness and building the individual’s resources. Indeed, the extended lunch periods routinely provided by many educational institutions and government agencies factor in napping time. These positive traditions or cultural expectations may facilitate the constructive effects of napping, whereas in Western countries napping in older children is negatively perceived, which may dampen the perceived benefits of napping and outcomes.” • When the bedtime is too late, naps help: “Overall, napping was significantly associated with higher happiness, grit, and self-control, reduced internalizing behavior problem, higher verbal IQs and better academic achievement. In addition, we found that optimal academic achievement and positive psychology was associated with longer naps (31-60 minutes and greater than 60 minutes) and most frequent (5-7 times per week).”

(To be continued)

Comments

  1. Dr W – I have a 4.5 month old who sleeps throughout the night for 10.5-11.5 hrs (7:30pm bedtime to 630-730am. He has trouble staying up until 9am mid morning nap and sometimes sleeps for more than 1.5 hrs. Because he can’t seem to stay up for more than 1.5-2 hrs, it seems to be affecting his midday nap which would then last only 40 min. Right now he still takes a third nap which may start as early as 2:30pm. As a result, there’s a long stretch of wake time between his last nap ending and bedtime. I am not sure what to adjust since the issue seems to be his inability to stay up for more than 2 hrs. Would love your thoughts. Thank you.

    1. Please describe his mood and behavior between 6-7:30pm when alone with toys (no screens or parental involvement).

  2. We have never left him alone during this time. We usually start his bedtime routine during this time, where he gets his bath and drinks his last meal, which takes a while sometimes. He does not drink alot so we will spend some time to coax him to drink as much as possible before bedtime. Then we burp him, read books and sing and put him down. He rubs his eyes alot and we know he is tired. We’ve tried to push up bedtime but we need to get his last meal and when we have put him down early like 6:45pm, he would cry before falling asleep at 730 anyway.

  3. He can be quite fussy during this time but is calm during baths and will smile when we interact with him and try to make him laugh. Hopefully this answers your question – thank you!

    1. “He can be quite fussy during this time” and “He rubs his eyes a lot” tells you that his falling asleep time at night is way too late. Because he is about 4 months old, your focus is on:
      1. Early bedtimes based on drowsy signs.
      2. Encourage self-soothing skills at bedtimes.
      3. No nap schedule; instead, do whatever works to maximize daytime sleep and minimize daytime fussiness/crying.
      4. No new nap starts after 3:00pm.

  4. Thank you. We will try this today. A couple questions:
    1. If he sleeps around 6-630pm, then he could wake up before 6am. That is too early for us and also makes me unsure whether I should try to put him back to sleep right away after feeding.
    2. When should he be on a nap schedule? Your book’s chapter on 4-12 months made it seem like a nap schedule is doable at 4 months, so that’s why I have been trying to put him on a 3 nap schedule.

    1. When you move the bedtime earlier, he will wake up better rested. Then, and only then, will naps begin to fall in place. First, focus on night sleep.
      “That is too early for us “; please read the blog Posts on Brain Health and respond.

  5. Hi Marc

    I have a question from the UK about napping for a 1-year-old.

    We have been using your book with great success – Our daughter (13 months) has slept through the night since ~6 months and happily naps during the day. She is happy and confident.

    Her current routine is as follows:

    * Wake up ~ 06:00 (often earlier). Bottle of milk (150ml) after waking up followed by breakfast around 08:00.

    * First nap ~ 08:30/09:00 (2-3 hours after waking). We watch for signals and get her down when they start. She sleeps for ~1.5 hours if left to it, waking up around 10:00.

    * Lunch ~ 13:00. Dinner ~ 17:00.

    * Bedtime ~ 18:00 (she stays awake ~ 8 hours after nap, not visibly tired until close to bedtime).

    She used to nap several times a day, but a second nap is now rarely successful (crying, no sleep).

    My questions:

    1. The long/asymmetric afternoon wake window (~8 hours c.f. ~3 hours in the morning) seems unusual. Is this something that we should be concerned about? If so, any guidance on what we should do would be greatly appreciated.
    2. We are considering implementing a shorter morning nap (by waking her up) with the hope this will allow her to nap again in the afternoon. I think this is a bad idea but would appreciate your thoughts.
    3. Could the early wake time be due to her routine, or is it likely just her natural rhythm?

    Many thanks

    Max

    1. At 12 months of age, about 80% of children are taking 2 naps a day and by 15 months, it’s about 45% so having 2 naps is probably what she needs.
      When did she go to a single nap?
      Please describe in detail her mood and behavior between 5-6pm when she is alone with toys (no screens or parental interaction)

  6. Dear Marc,

    Thank you for taking the time to respond so quickly.

    * Transition to one nap – She moved to a single nap in May (aged 11 months). Occasionally, she still shows signs of afternoon tiredness, in which case we offer a second nap.

    * Mood and behaviour – Between 5–6 pm, solo play is the norm, with minimal parental interaction and no screens (screen time is negligible at any time). She is vocal and active (crawling, practising standing, and climbing on and off low furniture).

    Her usual activities include solo play with a variety of toys, “reading” books, and playing with our dog (with appropriate supervision). Occasionally, she will seek us out (e.g., to play hide-and-seek or to watch us prepare her bath/bedtime).

    Her mood is generally happy. Compared to normal, her babbling can be slightly louder during this time but remains upbeat, with plenty of laughter.

    After a particularly busy day (about once every two weeks), she may show signs of tiredness between 5–6 pm – becoming more subdued, wanting to be held, and occasionally crying. When this happens, we bring bedtime forward.

    1. My only suggestion is to move her bedtime 20 minutes earlier for 4-5 nights to see if she will fall asleep earlier. If she does, the next step would be to repeat this process and monitor latency to sleep onset. The idea is that by temporarily going to bed a little earlier, you will be able to slowly and gradually shift her single nap towards the midday. later, when the single nap is midday, the bedtime might, or might not, be shifted to slightly later time.
      Not doing this might lead to cumulative sleepiness (Please read Blog Posts 84-86).
      How does this sound?

  7. Dear Marc,

    Thank you for your advice.

    Just to check my understanding: our daughter may not ‘realise’ she is tired in the afternoons (subjective sleep blindness), but likely is. To determine if this is the case, you suggest moving her bedtime earlier by 20 minutes and observing how she responds. If, after 5 days with the earlier bedtime, she is falling asleep quickly (i.e., low sleep onset latency), this would indicate that she was in fact tired in the afternoons, just without showing the usual sleepy signs.

    Regarding her nap schedule, I understand the working assumption is that she is a solo napper. In light of this, your suggestion is to gradually shift her single nap later in the day (perhaps by around 15 minutes each day?) until it becomes a true mid-day nap.

    Thank you again for your guidance.

    Kind regards,

    Max

    1. Yes.
      The term ‘subjective blindness to sleepiness’ refers to adults; here, your daughter might be sleepy earlier than you have appreciated.

  8. Dear Dr. Weissbluth,
    Hope you are doing well

    I’m reaching put again because our daughter’s fragmented night sleep and early wake up has been really hard on us for the last few months.
    She will be 15 month old in a week. Was born at 38 weeks and sleeps in her own crib since she was born. We put her down drowsy but awake for both naps and night sleep without any problems. She is bottle fed.

    It all became worse when daycare, for organizational reasons, decided to transition her to one nap around March.

    At home, on weekends, up until 2 weeks ago, we were still managing to get her to nap twice. In the morning she used to sleep from 9 to 11.30 and then after lunch from aroumd 1pm to 3pm. Her usual bedtime is around 7.30pm. On good days her wake-up time in the morning is 7am but recently she’s been waking up very frequently at 5.00- 5.30 am and often ignoring her does not make her go back to sleep. She also has been waking up at least once during the night.

    Now, on the weekends, she is also resisting her morning nap and after lunch sleeping much less than she should be. The last two weekends she slept from 1pm to 2.15pm.

    At night she tends to wake up at least once either around 1am or 3am and we usually give her a bottle around that time because trying to ignore her for two weeks gave no results other than her crying for 2 hours straight risking to wake up her 4 year old brother.

    Besides the night waking, we do not know how to fix also the early wakeup time. Consider that on most weekdays an earlier bedtime is not possible (earlier than 7.30pm) and on the days both my husband and I go to the office a bedtime earlier than 8pm is impossible.

    At daycare, they report that she often takes only one nap from 1pm to 3pm and rarely sleeps until 4pm. We still have 2 weeks of daycare before we go on summer break and we are exhausted. Also because I want to possibly transition her to a good sleeping schedule before we go on vacation so that maybe we can all sleep better during our vacation.

    Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

    Thank you in advance,
    Nour

    1. Put her alone with toys (no screens nor parental interaction) for 10-20 minutes between 6:30-7:30pm for 3-4 nights and observe her mood and behavior in detail and report back.

  9. Dear Dr. Weissbluth,

    We observed her like you asked during 4 weekday nights and she just played alone, calmly, very determined and patient when she found obstacles or couldn’t get the toys to fit where they should. She rubbed her eyes on only one occasion but for the rest of the time was very serene. No issues also putting her to bed as she usually falls asleep in five minutes maximum when we put her down drowsy but awake around 8pm after being bottle fed.
    In the meantime, she got sick and stayed home for one day during which she napped both in the morning from 9.00 to 10.00 and in the afternoon from 1.00pm to 3.30pm. Same thing this last weekend. She went back without any problems to two naps.
    Her nights though are still very fragmented both on weekdays and on weekends.
    She wakes up 3/4 times a night, screems her lungs out and out of desperation sometimes we pick her up, sooth her and put her back to bed drowsy but awake but after sleeping for 5 minutes she wakes up again and the cycle repeats at least for another 3 times during the night.
    We really can’t figure out what to do at this point. She does not have any health problems, is not teething, is not hungry and does not have a soiled diaper when she usually wakes up during the night.

    Thank you,

    1. Your observations suggest that there is no pre-sleep arousal and that 8pm is not too late. On the other hand, I do suspect that 8pm is too late a bedtime and if so, it would contribute to or cause night wakings. Would you be willing to try, for maybe 3 nights only a 7:30pm expected falling asleep time (she is bathed, dressed for sleep, fed, soothed, and you are leaving the room at 7:30pm). The attempt will be to monitor her latency to sleep onset. If she falls asleep easily at 7:30pm, we will know, after the fact, that 8:00 was too late. However, it is still possible that 7:30 is too late, and if so, the night waking might continue. If so, maybe we’ll try an even earlier bedtime. Trying small interventions like this often clarify what is going on. How does this sound?

  10. Dear Dr. Weissbluth,

    Here are my observations on how the last 9 days have gone. My daughter fell quite ill after I wrote you so it took us some time to go back to our regular nap and sleep schedules.
    In the meantime, we started our summer break and the first two days while on vacation she woke up at 8.30, skipped the morning nap because she was not tired and napped from 1pm to 4pm. Bedtime was around 8pm when we noticed she was becoming calm and she slept through the night without waking up at all.
    Third and forth day she woke up in the morning around 7am and we assumed she did not want to nap in morning anymore so we just took her to the beach with us in the morning and this is when everything backfired because she got to sleep from 1pm to 3pm max and her nights went back to being very fragmented with some wake periods that lasted for over an hour.
    So we decided to put her to sleep in the morning for the first nap and now for the past 4 days she’s been having 2 naps: 1.5 hrs in the morning (around 9.00) and at least 2 hours after lunch (around 1pm) and going to bed around 20.00 without waking up at all during the night. Usual wake up time in the morning is between 6.45 and 7.20.

    So, I was thinking looking at the data from the past days that the wake up time in the morning (waking up at 8.30 made her less tired and able to get to 1pm for the only nap of the day) and the total hours of sleep she gets during the day whether divided into one or 2 naps (she seems to need minimum 3 hours a day) are the two most important factors that can predict how the night will go. I say this because we tried an ealier bedtime (7pm) on 3 consecutive days when we made her miss her morning nap and realized she had gotten excessively tired in the evening but that did not prevent the fragmented nights.

    I also think an earlier bedtime in our case is not needed if she gets her total nap time because the time we put her to bed on the nights she did not wake up varied from 8pm to 8.30pm without any crying or problems going to sleep and staying asleep the whole night.

    Would love to hear your thoughts on this.

    I am honestly also starting to get a bit worried because if she needs all this day nap time, when she will go back to kindergarten in 3 weeks, she will go back to the single after lunch nap and we will have to deal with fragmented nights all over again.

    Thank you

    1. Considering the observation that she sleeps well at night with the later bedtime and the fact that about half of 15 month-old children are taking 1 nap and half are taking 2 naps but at 18 months, about 75% are taking a single nap and 25% are taking 2 naps, it seems that attempting a single nap per day going forward makes sense, with a later bedtime. The duration and timing of the single nap may vary, so the bedtime should also vary a bit. Would it help to organize your family’s schedule around a single nap, an attempted mid-day nap, even if she wakes early and seems sleepy in the mid-morning? On these occasions, plan for a somewhat earlier bedtime to prevent pre-sleep arousal that might cause fragmented night sleep. I know that these generalizations don’t translate into a specific clock schedule but please be optimistic that soon she will settle into a single nap pattern and her sleep, day and night will become more regular. Does this help?

      1. Please clarify your feeding description around bedtime. About. what time is her last feeding around bedtime (breast or bottle-how many ounces?) and the feeding 30-60 minutes later.

  11. Dear Dr. Weissbluth,

    Thank you for your feedback.
    It helps to know that you thnk that the transition to 1 nap a day might be achievable at her age (16 months).
    We’ve just been thinking for the past two days that we haven’t seen her so rested in such a long time. Even her mood improved drastically in the afternoon. It would be hard for us to rob her of all this time she obviously still needs to rest during the day. She’s been literally sleeping from 9.30 to 11.00 and 14.30 to 16.00 and then from 20.00-20.30 to 7.30 am for the past week.
    We can keep this up for another 3 weeks without any problem as she will be with her grandmother until kindergarten starts in September and so were thinking to adapt then her bedtime when she starts kindergarten again thus giving her and us (we haven’t been sleeping the whole night for months now) a few more weeks of rest.

    As to your question on feeding, we usually have dinner togther around 18.45-19.00 and she has the same meal we have. The dinner usually lasts around 30-45′. Then we give her 25′ to digest/play/give her a bath followed by a milk bottle of around 140ml. After finishing her bottle she is usually put to bed without any problems within 10 minutes.

    Thank you

  12. Sorry I meant to write 13.30 to 16.00 for the second nap and not 14.30. So a total of 2.5 hrs of sleep after lunch.

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